Every romance needs a villain to keep things interesting

Saints and Sinnas CoverYou always need a villain to keep a good book interesting. Villains can be anyone, male, female, pretty or ugly, rich or poor. But for me it’s always more interesting when they don’t look like they should be bad, yet they’re pretty much horrible. Continue reading “Every romance needs a villain to keep things interesting”

Stop distracting me. I can’t live on love. Or can I?

Saints and Sinnas CoverMen are  the best and the  worst kind of distraction. You know you need to work, but there they are with their big eyes and big hands and big…appetites. It’s hard to resist when you really don’t want to anyway. Who needs a job, right? I bet a woman could live on love, if it was good, and let’s face it, Tan love would be…or so Sinna believes. Continue reading “Stop distracting me. I can’t live on love. Or can I?”

There’s something sexy about a man with a plan – and little to no concern for your age

Saints and Sinnas CoverThere’s nothing more annoying than a man who has no opinions. Or, one who doesn’t plan. To me that indicates a lack of care or concern. Neither of which is attractive in fiction – or in real life. My heroes? Alphas, baby. Even when the culture wants them to be sweet. *winks*  Continue reading “There’s something sexy about a man with a plan – and little to no concern for your age”

There’s a careful/not creepy difference between no means f no, and maybe you could convince me

Saints and Sinnas CoverI can’t say I’m a big fan of men who persist in the face of a woman’s refusal. Too many can’t read between the lines and understand when no is not, I have some valid concerns about this relationship, and hell no. You need to move the f on, buddy. Note, I’m not talking about sex here.  Continue reading “There’s a careful/not creepy difference between no means f no, and maybe you could convince me”

A Taste of Life Dating a K-pop Idol? A Hassle, Yes. Enough? Not On Your Music Loving Life

I love a forthright man. There’s something terribly  sexy  about a man who lays his cards on the table: Here it is, love it or leave it, honey. But pretty please love it! Le sigh. It’s like, ok, daddy. I will, I do! I suspect that’s why my dating  life is strictly fictional LOL. In … Continue reading A Taste of Life Dating a K-pop Idol? A Hassle, Yes. Enough? Not On Your Music Loving Life

You’re an Idol. You Date Me, There Will Be Problems

Saints and Sinnas CoverKorean K-pop idols are special. They’re usually talented, gorgeous, their lives are extremely regulated and regimented, and they’re often not allowed to date until they’re older and more established. Even then, it’s not uncommon for a girlfriend or boyfriend to go over very badly with their fans. It spoils the illusion that the idol lives only for them. Many choose to hide their relationships, which comes with its own risks and angst. Continue reading “You’re an Idol. You Date Me, There Will Be Problems”