Behind every hero and heroine there is a cast of colorful characters propelling the story and making us laugh

Saints and Sinnas CoverFor me, the best romance novels aren’t just about sex…Did I just write that? LOL. But yeah. Erotic romance lover I certainly am, but without a good story, it gets boring quick. So, I don’t skimp on the storyline. I want hero and heroine to have a frickin’ life outside of the bedroom. That life is often well populated by ta da, the side characters. Continue reading “Behind every hero and heroine there is a cast of colorful characters propelling the story and making us laugh”

There’s something sexy about a man with a plan – and little to no concern for your age

Saints and Sinnas CoverThere’s nothing more annoying than a man who has no opinions. Or, one who doesn’t plan. To me that indicates a lack of care or concern. Neither of which is attractive in fiction – or in real life. My heroes? Alphas, baby. Even when the culture wants them to be sweet. *winks*  Continue reading “There’s something sexy about a man with a plan – and little to no concern for your age”

There’s a careful/not creepy difference between no means f no, and maybe you could convince me

Saints and Sinnas CoverI can’t say I’m a big fan of men who persist in the face of a woman’s refusal. Too many can’t read between the lines and understand when no is not, I have some valid concerns about this relationship, and hell no. You need to move the f on, buddy. Note, I’m not talking about sex here.  Continue reading “There’s a careful/not creepy difference between no means f no, and maybe you could convince me”

A Taste of Life Dating a K-pop Idol? A Hassle, Yes. Enough? Not On Your Music Loving Life

I love a forthright man. There’s something terribly  sexy  about a man who lays his cards on the table: Here it is, love it or leave it, honey. But pretty please love it! Le sigh. It’s like, ok, daddy. I will, I do! I suspect that’s why my dating  life is strictly fictional LOL. In … Continue reading A Taste of Life Dating a K-pop Idol? A Hassle, Yes. Enough? Not On Your Music Loving Life

You’re an Idol. You Date Me, There Will Be Problems

Saints and Sinnas CoverKorean K-pop idols are special. They’re usually talented, gorgeous, their lives are extremely regulated and regimented, and they’re often not allowed to date until they’re older and more established. Even then, it’s not uncommon for a girlfriend or boyfriend to go over very badly with their fans. It spoils the illusion that the idol lives only for them. Many choose to hide their relationships, which comes with its own risks and angst. Continue reading “You’re an Idol. You Date Me, There Will Be Problems”

Practicality and lovemaking, always the two shall mix

Saints and Sinnas CoverI’m a super practical person. Which would seem to be at odds with my love for romantic things, but for me, intermingling the two makes perfect sense. If a man really wants to build a great relationship with  you, he should think of the practical. After all, getting those necessary things out of the way leaves the field clear for all the loving and other non essential essentials, if you know what I mean. Continue reading “Practicality and lovemaking, always the two shall mix”